Human, father, partner, brother, son, consciousness living in this plane of existence we call reality.

Settling back in Amsterdam after a 2 year world trip with my girlfriend Anouke and my daughter Asami. This trip was a journey to find more meaning in life while exploring different countries and cultures. Learning more about what truly means to be happy and deepen my understanding of human behaviour. We are now waiting for our second daughter to arrive.

My background is in Web Development, more specifically, front end. It’s something I enjoy and take pleasure from. But after working in this field for over 13 years I found myself searching for something that can give me more fulfilment.

After doing some soul searching and self development work attending seminars and workshops, learning more about myself and who I am, I’ve found my purpose in RELATIONSHIP DESIGN COACHING. I believe that because we are all unique and have our own needs, we should also have our own type of relationship based on our own desires.

Helping people find out what type of relationship will offer them the most happiness, is my new found passion. I love the moment while talking with someone when I see them have a new understanding about themselves, when they get to look at things differently, from a new perspective, opening them up to new possibilities they hadn’t considered before.

I’ve always been interested in interpersonal dynamics and human behaviour. During my life, among other things, I’ve learned about meditation, healing, communication, family constelations and tantra. I’m the type of person that keeps challenging his own thoughts and perceptions, I love to learn new things and challenge what I take for granted, to question how we think and why we behave in certain ways. I try to question what I learn, to take the things that work for me and integrate them into how I already live my life.

I’m very passionate about how we communicate, what we say compared to what we mean. I keep in mind the question, “What is the best choice of words I can use to convey the message I want to share?”

So, in between hostels, beaches, hikes and travels I coach people in how to think of their own relationships, what they are looking for and what fits them best.